I’m a challenger.  I challenge myself to perform at my best.  I am a leader.  A leader of my family, friends, clients, and colleagues.  I have passion.  Great passion for assisting men who want help approaching women, communicating with women, and learning how to better understand women.

This discovery happened one summer not to long ago.  I hired someone to help me with my business.  About the time he was just beginning to date a woman that, for whatever reason he simply couldn’t figure out why their communication was so dysfunctional.  He simply couldn’t figure her out.

We spoke on a casual basis about his frustrations, his concerns and why this woman would say the things she said.  Having “coached” by offering advice to the many men in my circle of friends, I knew I could help. 

He and I would speak nearly every week.  And with each piece of advice I provide, he would “skeptically” proceed to implement my suggestions.

Every week, he would begin our conversation with, “Wow, you were spot on with your advice.  I can’t believe how you have helped me move our relationship forward and smoothed out the bumps.  This is amazing!”

As weeks went by, my passion for assisting my friend grew to the point where he says to me, “Patrick, this is your gift, your passion and your purpose.”

My higher self, my inner guidance had given me a directive that this is what I needed to do.

This is what led up to the launch of the “Wingman For You” philosophy.  And I’ve never looked back. 

My life has been an amazingly frightening journey with twists and turns no one could imagine. 

But frankly, it didn’t have to take this long.  Perhaps I’m stubborn, or afraid of change, or maybe just ignorant.  Whatever my problem, I am here now.

I’m here for the men. Here to assist other men who are feeling the way I did back a decade or so ago.